I’m struggling to understand why people act surprised or upset when the things they do or say directly results in consequential behaviour. For example…
Don’t be surprised when your house gets broken into… when you’re constantly on Facebook telling everyone when you’re going to the store, the doctors, on vacation, to the bathroom.
Don’t be surprised when you are in jail… when you get pulled over at 3 in the morning reeking like booze and have a bag of pot on you.
Don’t be surprised when your child has and odd rash and fever… when you let them crawl on the Wal-mart bathroom floor.
Don’t be surprised when your wife wants a divorce… when you’re checking out creepy porn sites on her work computer.
And don’t be surprised when I elbow you in the temple… when you ask me “how many more kids you gonna have?”